Mr. Clean Returns

Several years ago, I asked Tony to stop shaving his head and to grow out his hair. We were in a really tough point in our marriage and the shaved head carried with it some pretty negative feelings. Of course, he was more than willing to comply, but hasn't really been happy with having hair. Here are his reasons:

1. He thinks hair is a waste of time. He doesn't like to fix it and would just rather not have the concern.
2. He thinks he has too much gray...which I don't agree with. Yes, he has some gray, but I think it is really attractive.
3. With age comes thinning and a receding hairline. Yes, he had a little of both but I still thought he looked good. He, however, did not.

A couple of weeks ago I was doing some thinking (yes, it scared me too). Tony has always let me do whatever I wanted with my hair, make up, clothes etc. As long as I was happy, he didn't care what I did. So, why was I being so selfish and not extending the same back to him. Our marriage is stronger than it's ever been, so those bad memories shouldn't' be a concern. So, I told him that if a shaved head would make him happier, than I would be okay with it. Of course he was thrilled. He made me do the first shaving though so I couldn't change my mind.

What do you think...Tony with hair? or Tony bald??? You be the judge.

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